I moved to Brooklyn with a 5 month old baby and a 2 and a half year old toddler and did not know which way was up. In the past two years I have found my feet, established a different and happy life here.
I've learnt how to order a cheese slice (that's a slice of pizza for you Brits); that it's ok to talk to total randoms in the street without them thinking you're a weirdo; that New Yorkers are some of the friendliest and kindest people anywhere; I understand baseball; I've just about got used to how insanely loud the fire trucks are (and I call them fire trucks); I have kids who happily play in a paddling pool on six square feet of stoop because they don't know about gardens.
I can navigate my way through the endless packets of mac 'n' cheese in a supermarket to find non-orange food; I've gone past thinking cocktails are a bit different and glamorous and a margarita is now my beverage of choice; I've found out that New Yorkers love really good beer (and it is really good); that it is hard to have a bad meal in this city; that the sight of Brooklyn Bridge and the Manhattan skyline will never fail to stop me in my tracks and make me feel so grateful for the time we are spending here; and to top it all off about six months ago when I was telling a shop assistant that I'd been living here for 18 months, he said, 'well you're a New Yorker then'. I lived in London for 12 years and loved it but would never have called myself a Londoner.
I have also come to know myself in a way I didn't before. A lot of this has been over the course of the last year as I have more actively engaged with the sewing community and documented my sewing and the thoughts sewing inspires on this blog.
I love writing this blog. I'm not good at sticking to a schedule for it - I'm not a big fan of routine and, as much as I claim otherwise, I'm a fairly chaotic person - but it's my blog and I don't have to follow rules. But I do love it. Even if no-one reads it. I love writing down my thoughts and experimenting with our wonderful language. I even like the techy bits and the slightly embarrassing positions I find myself in taking photos for it.
Over the course of this year I have learnt a HUGE amount about how to sew, made some items of clothing I'm immensely proud of, made a fair few I'm not proud of and that haven't made it to the blog although they probably should, I have made new online friends, met some of them in person, loosely set up a sewing club, become published, and bared my soul on the radio.